7 Books Every 20-Something Woman Needs in Her Life Right Now

Alright, let's be real for a second—our 20s can feel like a crazy rollercoaster, right? We’re all trying to figure out how to "adult" while also making time for fun, friends, and, of course, self-care. That’s where self-help books come in clutch! Whether you're feeling stuck in your career, overwhelmed by relationships, or just needing a confidence boost, these books can give you the tools you need to thrive. Here’s my list of some top picks for women in their 20s!

1. “The Defining Decade” by Dr. Meg Jay

If you're looking for a book that will make you feel like yes, I actually have time to figure things out, this is it. Dr. Meg Jay basically says your 20s are the time to lay the foundation for your future, but it’s not all about stressing over your job or love life. She breaks down how small decisions now can create a big impact later. It's like having a cool, super-smart older sister who's been there, done that.

2. “You Are a Badass” by Jen Sincero

Who doesn’t need a little badassery in their life? Jen Sincero’s book is like a pep talk from your most confident friend. She keeps it real while showing you how to stop doubting yourself and start making moves. If you’re in a bit of a funk or need a push to go after that thing you’ve been dreaming of, this is the book for you. Plus, her humor and no-nonsense attitude make it an easy, fun read.

3. “Untamed” by Glennon Doyle

This book is for the woman who's ready to break free from what everyone else expects of her and start living her truth. Glennon Doyle is raw, real, and completely inspiring. She talks about how we, especially as women, often cage ourselves in, trying to meet everyone else’s expectations. Untamed is like your permission slip to live authentically. Total game-changer.

4. “Atomic Habits” by James Clear

Okay, hear me out—this might seem like it’s all about productivity, but it’s way more than that. James Clear shows how tiny, everyday habits can completely transform your life. Want to feel more in control of your day? Want to quit that bad habit? This is your go-to guide. Plus, it’s super practical, so you can start applying his tips immediately without feeling overwhelmed.

5. “Big Magic” by Elizabeth Gilbert

Got a creative itch you just can’t scratch? “Big Magic” is all about embracing your creativity without fear. Whether it’s art, writing, or any passion project, Elizabeth Gilbert gives you the confidence to just do it. This book is a must if you’ve ever held yourself back because you’re scared of failing (trust me, we’ve all been there).

6. “Daring Greatly” by Brené Brown

Feeling vulnerable? Brené Brown says that’s a good thing. In “Daring Greatly,” she talks about how vulnerability is actually a strength and how opening up more can lead to better relationships, more success, and just a fuller life. Honestly, this book will give you all the feels and make you want to live more bravely.

7. “Girl, Stop Apologizing” by Rachel Hollis

For the women who’ve been holding back, this is the ultimate hype book. Rachel Hollis is all about getting rid of excuses and going for what you want without feeling like you have to apologize for it. If you need a good kick in the butt to get going on your goals—whether it’s career, fitness, or personal life—this book will give you the motivation you need.

Your 20s are a time for growth, learning, and figuring out you. These books are like your personal cheerleaders—guiding you, encouraging you, and reminding you that it's okay not to have it all figured out yet. Whether you're dealing with career confusion, self-doubt, or just trying to live a more authentic life, there’s something here for everyone. Time to cozy up and get inspired!